Eleven

South Africa has 11 official languages:

1. English

2. Afrikaans

3. isiZulu

4. isiXhosa

5. siSwati

6. isiNdebele

7. Sesotho

8. Sepedi

9. Setswana

10. Tshivenda

11. Xitsonga

Nine of these languages are Bantu languages, meaning native. The first two, English and Afrikaans, are of European origin. I’m amazed and grateful to live in a country that prides itself on diversity and acceptance of cultures. South Africa, if I might add, also has one of the most progressive constitutions in the world. I love the part of the Preamble that states, “And believe that South Africa belongs to all who live in it, united in our diversity.”

I’ve been lucky enough throughout my time here so far to hear almost every official language in some way shape or form. Setswana is my favorite (I’m biased because that’s what we speak in my community) but seriously I love the simplicity and beauty of how it sounds! I continue to be amazed by the intricacies and overlap of each one. One of my goals for this year is to learn how to greet people in all eleven languages, it’s a work in progress.

When I greet people in my community in Setswana, some people are shocked. They say, “Yoooooooo! You know Tswana?!” I’ll never forget the day I was walking to my crèche and greeted a gentleman in passing. He stopped and said, “I never thought I would hear a white person speak Tswana to me. Thank you.” I never realized how my white privilege is connected to language. If I don’t greet them first, people greet me in English or sometimes, but rarely, Afrikaans. I certainly don’t know Afrikaans, so my puzzled face in response provides a laugh and the next question, “Which country are you from?” In a book I recently read called A Different Kind of Aids, the author, David Dickinson, spends some time talking about language. He states, “The vast majority of white South Africans speak hardly a word of any African language.” In South Africa, your race contributes to what language you speak. This is a result of the Apartheid government, in which people were separated by force of the government based on race in 4 categories: white, Indian, colored, and black. This then resulted in separation and lack of exposure to all the languages of South Africa.

Ive also come to learn, especially at my primary school, that English is “taking over.” I watch kids struggle in reading and writing in Setswana. Every year in grades 1-7 the students take their Home Language of Setswana and their First Additional Language English. Even some of my friends my age here have told me they can only hear Setswana, they can’t read it. In school they were taught to read and write in English. Dickinson also says in his book, “The ritual reality of language in South Africa is that 9 of the 11 official tongues, which are nominally equal, are dying. They are being abandoned by those who seek to get ahead. To get ahead means immersion in a world that communicates in English, the language of the universe, the language of science, the language of business, the language of law, the language of diplomacy, the language of the future.” I find discomfort in the truth of his statement and witnessing it in everyday life. In South Africa, in order to attend most universities you must know English and have high grades from your Matric Exams. Although I see and recognize the counter argument, that English is a mediator between languages to help people of differing languages communicate, it still saddens me. There are amazing languages all over the world losing traction to English. Becoming lessened and forgotten.

In the US we don’t think about these kinds of issues. We want things to be efficient and for communication to be easy. I cringe at the thought of the comment we tend to hear all to often, “You’re in America speak English.” We require it of each other. We don’t want to listen. We don’t want to learn. We want everyone else to conform. We marginalize the other.

My most humbling and unwavering Setswana teachers are my 2 and 3 year olds at the crèche. They continue to remind me, without even knowing, to stop and listen. To actually listen, not just hear and shrug in lack of understanding. To try with one another. To not get frustrated in miscommunication (even though they sometimes do get frustrated with me haha). That language is more than words, and we don’t have to speak the same one to know one another. Together these little kiddos and I laugh, smile, jump, dance, cry, eat, and give the best most amazing hugs to one another all in the same language.

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Meet the Team!

I wanted to introduce you all (finally) to our AMAZING YAGM Southern Africa Team! Each one of them brings something unique to the table to make our team of nine as special as it is. Together we are a loud, caring, hilarious, and strong family. I give thanks for every one of them and this journey we are on together.

Here’s the team! (from left to right, starting with the back row)

Alex LaChapelle –WI

Pietermaritzburg, South Africa

Alex is a pastor who hails from Wisconsin and he is our SA Country Coordinator! I met him for the first time at the DIP Event where I interviewed and was then placed on the Southern Africa team (bless). During our awkward group lunch interview (lol), I was relieved; this guy was pretty cool and I had a lot to learn from him. He seemed like the exact kind of leader I needed for the year, and I was so excited for the possibility of being on the team. This is Alex’s first year as the Country Coordinator, so we are all continuing to learn a lot together and I love it! Through all the ups and downs with our teams complications with visa applications, he always made sure that we never gave up hope and that we would forever be a team of eight. I’m so grateful Alex established a strong foundation for keeping faith for our little SA YAGM family. Alex is full of laughter, ambition, and the best most hilarious accents. He tells the best stories, has an awesome taste in music (in case you didn’t know he kind of, a little bit, likes The Avett Brothers) always lends an ear, and is willing to take one for the team when monkeys chase you outside his house. (P.S. Thanks again and sorry for leaving you to defend yourself, that was my bad)

Jake Connealy –MN

Venda, South Africa

Jake is spending his year serving in Limpopo, South Africa in the Northern Diocese. He is currently teaching a business class at the high school for grades 10 and 11 and next year will be helping with English classes. Jake lives with a host family and his TshiVenda is on point. He continues to impress and inspire us with his language learning skills. Every time I tell people that we have another volunteer in Venda, they say “YO! TshiVenda is very hard.” And yet he is mastering his community’s language better than any of us, and you can quote me on that. I also met Jake for the first time at the DIP Event during our country meeting. I very much remember his accent; the Minnesota accent is fascinating. I remember seeing him again in the airport after the event and awkwardly waving, saying something like, “Yeah! Southern Africa.” Don’t worry he didn’t forget and reminded me months later. Jake is one of the most genuine, non-judgmental, and caring friends I know. He can sing like nobody’s business, thinks playing with the water when doing the dishes is fun like I do, and has hands down the best puns of anyone I have ever met. Jake continues to teach and strengthen my faith by reminding me to let go of the control I think God has; and he always has an ear to listen that is never on a time schedule. (P.S. Your raps are more lit than litrinomics)

Meredith Bruster –IA

Soweto, South Africa

Meredith is spending her year serving in Soweto, South Africa in the Central Diocese. She lives and volunteers at Diakonia AIDS Ministry. During her week she assists in creating marketing materials, after school tutoring, and bringing the biggest smile in to work. She also is a dedicated runner, in case you didn’t know, and she has been volunteering in leading some exercise classes as well. I first met Meredith during our group lunch interview with Alex at the DIP Event. I was in awe of her genuine thoughtfulness and overwhelming sense of peace. I knew I had a lot to learn from her and I was right. She constantly teaches me what it means to be a supportive friend, how to genuinely offer love and care, and helps me to appreciate my fruits and vegetables more than I ever thought I would. Everyone knows the saying; “She has a smile that lights up the room,” but that is only true if it is the Meredith Bruster; I’m beyond serious. Meredith is a beautiful singer, has hands down the most hilarious and “interesting” quotes, and hands affirmations out like candy. (Did I mention she likes to run?) I continue to be inspired by Meredith’s positivity, strength, and constant sense of wonder for this beautiful world we share. I certainly don’t thank her enough for her unwavering friendship and always offering to give a hug. (P.S. Libras will always be the best, and YOU KNOW WHY)

Jordan Zeihr – NC

Mankayane, Swaziland

Jordan is spending his year serving in Mankayane, Swaziland in the Eastern Diocese. He spends his week serving at the local primary school and chilling with his awesome host family. Jordan has become our group’s most avid and biggest fan of the soapies (South African soap operas) he watches with his host family every night; it is highly impressive. I first met Jordan at Orientation in August in Chicago when I confused him with his best friend Bryan Lester (they are both really tall and blonde and both went to UNC, honest mistake). I knew that when he got us lost on our group scavenger hunt in Chicago, and gave me so much sass about it, that we would be friends. Jordan has the best taste in music (AKA Chance the Rapper and Jack Johnson) and I absolutely love it. He really enjoys cooking, pushing me down in the sand when I’m trying to get up while playing soccer, and is an avid reader. Jordan is incredibly humble, down-to-earth, and quite hilarious. He is the kind of guy you continue to learn new things about him all the time, and I can’t wait to keep learning more as the year goes on. Thanks for reminding me to always sing and dance as if no one is watching. (P.S. The color that looks best on you is maroon, and paired with my orange watch, it’s fire. And I mean it. Go Hokies…..and Heels)

Jacob Shelor – PA

Manzini, Swaziland

Jacob is spending his year serving in Manzini, Swaziland in the Eastern Diocese. During his week he spends time volunteering at the Dean’s Office and the local crèche. I’ve actually known Jake for many years! We were both devoted VA Synod Event attendees. Jake was always singing, smiling, knew everyone and I always saw him giving out hugs (I was secretly a big fan). We knew of each other, but never had a small group together and we weren’t reunited again until we were sitting at the airport in Chicago for the DIP Event. I saw him and was so excited, another VA person! (Then I accidently called him by his twin brother’s name Josh, again so, so sorry, that was my bad). But during that overwhelming, fun and emotional weekend, Jake provided me with a sense of peace and comfort. He wrote nothing on his preference card in regards to his country placement, because his faith was strong and he trusted the process (inspiring!). I made him hold my hand during the announcements of placements, and then was in awe that we would both selected to serve in Southern Africa. Jake is a devoted and loyal friend to everyone, will always bring a smile to your face, and he continues to teach and inspire me about power of faith. (P.S. You make the best pies, Apple and Sheppard’s!)

(front row, left to right)

Anna Moorhead – WI

Bonaero Park, South Africa

Anna is spending her year serving in Bonaero Park, South Africa at the ELCSA Churchwide office in the Central Diocese. She spends her week working for ELCSA Development Services who do a variety of work on gender based violence, HIV & AIDS Nutrition Garden programs, capacity building, and cultural diversity. Anna also lives with a host family in Atlasville and loves spending time with her host sister and brother. I first met Anna at the DIP Event because we were both interviewing for the same countries. She was so sweet, calm and ready and willing to take on this year. We stayed in touch after DIP and finding out we were on the same team. I remember telling my grandparents that she would be my new best friend, even if she didn’t know it yet! Come to find out she said the same thing! Anna has the sweetest Wisconsin accent and continues to teach me so much about the Midwest (I love it). I admire her dedication to this program, her faith, and her friendships. Anna may be the sweetest, but when her sass comes out you better brace yourself, and I absolutely love that about her. She is the best bus and plane buddy (when we aren’t falling asleep lol), the biggest and best coffee fan (and chocolate), and her SA twist on green bean casserole is pretty good! Her presence is full of grace, peace, smiles (the best selfies), and positivity. Thank you Anna for your constant reminders of what it means to be a best friend. (P.S. Are you sure it wasn’t a cat?)

Abby Mandris – NY

Piggs Peak, Swaziland

Abby is spending her year serving in Piggs Peak, Swaziland in the Eastern Diocese. She lives with a host family and spends her week at volunteering at the local primary school. I first met Abby as she was boarding the plane to Chicago in Baltimore. We were Facebook friends before we met, and so as she walked passed I creepily said, “Abby!?” Luckily it really was Abby. She sat in the seat next to me, and I sighed with relief. In just our first few minutes of chatting, I was so grateful that we would get to share this experience together. This girl was the coolest and I couldn’t wait to get to know her more. Abby is pretty hilarious and has the most contagious laugh that makes you laugh even harder. She is beyond talented in photography and always captures the right moment. I continue to be inspired by Abby’s bravery, care for others, and the power of her words through writing. She absolutely has the best taste in movies and writes the sweetest cards. Abby is super go with the flow, can read through books like nobody’s business, and will always share her tomato soup with you. Abby gives the best hugs, and I couldn’t be more grateful (seriously the are the best, it’s no joke)!! I certainly don’t tell Abby enough how beautiful, strong, courageous, and inspiring she is. (P.S. Put your positive pants on! They look good on you!)

Ryan Morrow – NC

Mbabane, Swaziland

Ryan is spending her year serving in Mbabane, Swaziland in the Eastern Diocese. She works at the ELCSA Lutheran Development Service office. During her week she has the opportunity to accompany her coworkers to visit community members who are HIV positive, orphans, elderly, and/or living with a disability and helps in the LDS with paperwork in the office whenever she has the chance. I grew to love Ryan even before we met; on Facebook, we both shared our love for our favorite exactly the same favorite meal: Meatloaf with mash potatoes and broccoli. From then on I knew this girl was the absolute best. Ryan and I first met when we were randomly placed as roommates for Orientation in Chicago. Together we shared our love of Ben and Jerry’s ice cream, playing “black is lava” on the crosswalks, and beating Jordan and Bryan in foosball. Ryan is compassionate, caring and beyond genuine in her relationships. She will always do what she can to make you feel included, welcomed and loved. Ryan is the best storyteller I know; she has the best stories but tells them in ways you will never forget. Ryan is hands down hilarious and continues to make everyone and anyone around her laugh. She consistently loses what are the odds, is really good at running through sprinklers and making hand turkeys. Ryan has the biggest heart that she wears on her sleeve. Ryan continues to teach me the reality that things will always work out and God will provide. I couldn’t be more thankful for her endless friendship, always being on the same page, and constant strength to embrace this year. (P.S. Wanna bite?)

 

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